Expectations

A dialogue so relatable ” Intentionally you don’t want to hurt people you love but one or the other way you always hurt people you love. You can’t hurt people you don’t love.”All just because in your imagination is just so perfect that you start expecting things and when those expectations are not met you get hurt. In short, you always expect from those whom you love and get hurt also from those only .you sometimes try not to expect things so that you don’t get hurt but in your subconscious mind there are expectations. They can be less but there are some why because at some point in time they let us hope those and even met those. But now you don’t know what it is but you do get hurt even if it is a bit.

Another thing I have always seen is you always run behind something that is running away from you or the one that is difficult to get. No matter the thing you have how special it is you don’t value them because that’s not what you want. So it’s a cycle, all are running. We can never be satisfied, some expectations are always there because of which you get hurt. But are those things behind which we are running really worth for us. If yes then why does it take so much time and if not then why those things are there in your life. Everything will be perfect but yet you won’t be happy. Why? Because of the perfection, you created in your mind. Everyone says control your mind and you will be sorted. But then that’s the most difficult things. The only thing we can do is get used to it with time until it stops affecting you and you are met with yet another thing to strive.